Hadith from sahih Bukhari
Volume 7, Book 63, Number 188:
Narrated 'Aisha:
Allah's Apostle gave us the option (to remain with him or to be divorced) and we selected Allah and His Apostle . So, giving us that option was not regarded as divorce.
O ye who believe! Ye are forbidden to inherit women against their will. Nor should ye treat them with harshness, that ye may Take away part of the dower ye have given them,-except where they have been guilty of open lewdness; on the contrary live with them on a footing of kindness and equity. If ye take a dislike to them it may be that ye dislike a thing, and Allah brings about through it a great deal of good. (4:19)
Yess, Divorce. I have seen more than once a family institution crumbled to the ground. I have encounter more than 1 couple around me facing a troubled marriage. And most of them are below 30 years old. Why is this rampant in our society? Is it because of the lacking of education in marriage prior to the wedding ceremony? Or maybe just because Marriage has been regarded as trend rather than ibadah? Or it is merely for sexual pleasures? The Rasul had said in his Hadith as below that regards the Holiness or Barakah of Marriage:
Hadith - Sahih Bukhari, Volume 7, Book 62, Number 4, Narrated 'Abdullah 
We were with the Prophet while we were young and had no wealth whatever. So Allah's Apostle said, "O young people! Whoever among you can marry, should marry, because it helps him lower his gaze and guard his modesty (i.e. his private parts from committing illegal sexual intercourse etc.), and whoever is not able to marry, should fast, as fasting diminishes his sexual power."
Well this is all I can write for now... I'll do more research and come back with a very complete elaboration
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